Simple Habits to Rebuild Routine, Reduce Anxiety, and Regain Mental Clarity
Back to School, Back to Routines
School drops offs. School pick-ups. Traffic. Lunchboxes. New shoes. New teachers. New friends. New peer pressures.
School life quirks coming back around with some life ones included too.
Some of us are bracing for the ride.
Some of us are looking forward to the routine.
Some of us are just realizing its August already.
The go to response is usually to respond with strategy of - who is going to be in charge of what – which is important and it’s also important to always remember one day at a time whether school is in session or not.
This time of year folks are often looking for ways to rebuild routines . We buy the planner – the dated one because you’re thinking “this is your year”, you color code the plan and then ….it falls apart.
4 Tips to Help with Routine
One of the main pitfalls of starting back on the routine is the “state” of how we start it.
It’s usually started off with dopamine and high hopes and when life gets in the way, we get frustrated and overwhelmed.
Learning how to build structure into our lives while also giving room to allow the ebbs and flows of life is literally the formula we are all trying to solve.
Here are some shifts & tangible tips that have helped me:
1. Remember the plot
What are you doing this all for – like really? A majority of people are just living their life on default as if it’s a movie they are watching vs. acknowledging they are the director. They determine the theme music. The route to routines ought to always start with intentions and remembering the plot of it all.
2. Identify what a winning week looks like
Sometimes we feel like we are not doing enough or even get overwhelmed at the thought of doing too much but identifying metrics of success will help calm anxieties because then the brain is not lost in obscurity and we are giving it something to focus on.
Those tasks or hurdles you are dreading? How can you resource yourself by addressing it for one and two, give yourself the space to figure out what you need to make it happen. Sometimes it’s as a simple as naming It as the win of the week and a mental “kick in the butt”.
3. Visual and auditory diet
If you are googling how to get more mental clarity my go to recommendation will always be take social media off your phone. You don’t have to delete the app but get it off your phone. A detox is in order friend. The number of things people are consuming is criminal at this point because it’s beyond what our brains are designed to be exposed to. Visual diet is simple, highly effective way to save literal mental energy, expand capacity to improve your ability to get things done and ability to tackle the life quirks that inevitably come your way.
4. Solve for sleep
The ability to stick to the routines and make decisions that keep us moving in the direction we want to go, we need to protect our sleep. It influences everything. The quality of your sleep is connected to every area of your life including your health, decision making abilities, emotional regulation, energy and mood. If your habits and patterns are costing you your sleep, it’s too expensive. Shorter life and health span expensive.
Creating routines is not about perfect execution. It's about cultivating certainty in an uncertain world.
You can't control the traffic. You can't control the teacher your kid gets assigned, or the meeting that runs long, or the week that just falls apart no matter how well you planned it. Uncertainty isn't a glitch in the system; it is the system. It's just life, on repeat... like subsequent sessions.
What you can control is smaller than that, and it's enough: the anchor points. The thing you come back to when the day goes sideways. That's what a routine is. It’s not a rigid schedule but a handful of certainties you get to carry with you into whatever the day throws at you.
That's the whole shift. Not "did I execute the plan perfectly," but "do I have something steady that helped me return to what’s important. Remembering the plot. Naming your winning week. Protecting your visual diet. Solving for sleep. These aren't tasks to check off, they're the certainty you're building, one shift at a time, in a world full of uncertainties.
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You don't need all four this week. Pick one. Do it for the next two weeks and notice what shifts - not just in your schedule, but in how grounded you feel moving through it.
Whole-person healing doesn't start with everything. It starts with one decision at a time.
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